Recently, Katelyn Jetelina of Your Local Epidemiologist, who I enjoy and respect, published an article on declining birthrates in the US. She mentions several reasons for folks not having kids: lack of access to affordable healthcare, little support available for new parents (paid parental leave), the costs of childcare. She also mentions various financial incentives tried around the world, with mixed results.
She misses several elephants in the room:
In America, abortion claims around one million children per year. If we want more kids, we might consider not killing them before they’re even born. Leaving out of our discussion abortions based on tests indicating serious handicaps in the child, we have two big issues: the costs of birth (neo natal, the birth itself, and early child health care can amount to well over $30,000 if one is not well insured) and, obviously, the costs and time commitment of raising that child. (These costs, obviously, discourage planned childbearing as well.)
We might address the birth related health costs by simply covering them all, making birth “free”. We cover a child’s education through at least high school, thinking that having well educated kids is important to society; might the same logic apply to birth expenses?
We might address the ongoing cost, in funds and effort, in raising the child by facilitation adoption. Adoption today can cost tens of thousands of dollars, and much time and aggravation. How about cutting the red tape, and the cost of screening and backgrounding prospective adopters. I’ve not seen any indications that adoptive parents are any worse at the of than natural ones. Make adoption easy and free.
Regarding childcare costs: Several generations ago, the grandparents bore much of that burden. At a local lever, we could discourage “seniors only” communities, allow “mother-in-la specials to be built on the back of existing homes. Encourage, as a society, parents to live in the same town – better the same neighborhood – as one set or the other grandparents (or aunts, other family). Where no family is available, allow neighbors to supply childcare, without state licensing. QA trusted neighbor is likely a better choice than a state licensed facility, staffed by lower paid employees there only for the income.
Doing whatever we can to get the grandparents (or great grandparents) involved in child rearing presents benefits to all concerned. We’d give grandparents a purpose in life, and I rather suspect that if one asked a grandparent, late in life, if he’d wishes he’d spent more time on the gold course or being with his grandkids, he’d choose the latter.
We have few children and we have them later in life than we once did. We ought encourage early marriage and child bearing. Our needing more children is not solved by simply finding a way for every woman to have two kids; it’s also in facilitating some to have many children. Several generations ago, Americans married early – often the girl just out of high school, the fellow a couple of years her senior. With decent jobs available for a high school grad, and with apprenticeships available for most of the jobs for which we now require degrees, the fellow could often be financially secure enough to support wife and children (perhaps with a bit of help from the grand parents). Marrying one’s high school sweetheart would involve marrying a local (close to a neighbor). If one marries and stays in the community, one has both sets of grandparents available to lean on. And, the earlier you start, the more kids might have.
Katelyn also mentions the high expense of fertility treatments, if needed. The later in life one attempts to conceive, the more difficulties arise. Thus, best to start early. The current pattern of college degree, advanced degree, a few years to establish oneself in one’s field, leads to fewer children (if any) and fertility issues. Finally, if the mother cannot conceive, why not adopt.? As a society, we ought to encourage adoption.
Marrying early, having hots of kids, involving grandparents, extended family and neighbors in raising the kids, having a tight community of multiple generations, is how we evolved, both genetically and socially. Might be some wisdom in that.